So here's the thing. The drs that listen in this building are great. But there are a lot that pass people over immediately. Everything is just shrugged off you'll be fine. But here's the catch the more knowledgeable you are now the less they listen. Instead we are labeled melodramatic moms on tik tok. To the point I could not find people who believed me about my kids and actually then investigated further. So then I figure stuff out tell them and they will just say no thats not it. Its just constant gaslighting by these drs. Some are great. But there needs to be a serious course on narcacistic behavior in drs, because you dont know everything, and you continuously discredit parents desperately looking for answers. I was on the er on st Patrick's day it is empty. So the dr comes in and throws her badge on the thing and huffs. I had brought ny daughter in for severe pelvic pain. She goes so is this the same as last week. I was like we weren't here last week huffs again and is like ok well we can do an xray. I even said like they are having a lot of gi problems. Xrays good they sent us home. She was in gastroperisis. She has an underlying health condition that no one looked into bc you cant get further than an attempt at a bandaid for symptoms and then they tell you youre over reacting if you push farther. 4/5 family members were wrongly diagnosed in my house after years of them just not believing me. 3 of them were frequently seeing people in this hospital. Something is very wrong. To the nurses you guys have been a saving grace, thank you for kindness and compassion. To the administration at Kaleida do better. Stop shorting your staff and cutting ever corner you can. Like really ai phone lines now???? Unbelievable.
